{"id":14141,"date":"2019-12-20T07:00:37","date_gmt":"2019-12-20T05:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/?p=14141"},"modified":"2024-10-16T09:19:32","modified_gmt":"2024-10-16T07:19:32","slug":"life-skills-the-right-tools-for-the-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/life-coaching-blog\/life-skills-the-right-tools-for-the-job\/","title":{"rendered":"Life skills: The right tools for the job"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In South Africa, we have added many words to our own vocabulary over the past few decades. One important buzzword in education is upskilling. The word may look awkward but it tells it like it is. Upskilling is about taking individuals\u2019 abilities to a higher level, upwards from where those skills were.<\/p>\n<p>Upskilling can be applicable to <a href=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/blog\/what-is-the-value-of-structured-life-coaching-system\/\">life coaching<\/a> because this type of coaching does in fact empower people through knowledge to embrace positive change. Life coaching is about imparting those skills that people need to successfully handle various situations in their lives both in the present and in the future.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>What types of life skills are there?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>There are five skills in the communication or action section. Here they are briefly. The most obvious and first skill is verbal communication. This comprises the use of words.<\/p>\n<p>Vocal communication is the communication you do through the volume at which you are communicating or talking as well as your rate of speech, your pitch, which words your emphasise and your articulation.<\/p>\n<p>Body language is what you communicate with your body, including your posture, your clothes, your grooming, the expression on your face, eye contact (or lack thereof), your gaze, your gestures and proximity.<\/p>\n<p>Touch is seen by some as a subsection of body language. This sense also plays a role in what you communicate. Where you touch the other person, how and with which part of your body affects communication. (Picture a shove versus a gentle hand on someone\u2019s shoulder when they\u2019re telling you something sad.)<\/p>\n<p>Follow-up consists of the action you take when the person who you\u2019re communicating with is not standing right in front of you\/ this includes sending an email to a client who never arrived for an appointment.<\/p>\n<p>In one of our <a href=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/blog\/active-listening-vital-to-coaching-excellence\/\">articles<\/a> which we published on our website a little while ago, we went through active listening. In this article, we\u2019ll have a look at verbal communication skills.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-14143 size-shop_single\" src=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/SLP_6176-copy-600x497.jpg\" alt=\"Trifocus Fitness Academy - life skills\" width=\"600\" height=\"497\" srcset=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/SLP_6176-copy-600x497.jpg 600w, https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/SLP_6176-copy-1024x847.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/SLP_6176-copy-242x200.jpg 242w, https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/SLP_6176-copy-768x636.jpg 768w, https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/SLP_6176-copy-300x248.jpg 300w, https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/SLP_6176-copy.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><strong>What is verbal communication?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>The term \u2018verbal communication\u2019 refers to the usage of words in order to share information with other individuals. The verbal element of communication is regarding the words which you select, as well as how these are heard and interpreted.<\/p>\n<p>Verbal communication is made up of the following elements:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Language: Consists of formal language or informal\/colloquial language or slang.<\/li>\n<li>Content: This refers to the type of conversion (in other words, whether it\u2019s positive or negative) and the focal point of the speech taking place<\/li>\n<li>Amount of speech: Important to consider is how much you\u2019re talking. In a <a href=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/courses\/life-coaching\/\">life coaching<\/a> situation, it is vital that the coach gives the client room to express their feelings or concerns.<\/li>\n<li>Speech ownership: This is a clever and subtle of distinguishing between communication beginning with \u2018I\u2019 and that beginning with \u2018You\u2019. The \u2018you\u2019 messages can often have a judgmental twist to them. \u2018I\u2019 messages focus on one\u2019s own feelings or viewpoints.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/contact-us\/\"><strong>Contact Trifocus Fitness Academy<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n<p>There are many other life skills that you will learn and are essential for a life coach to know and understand. If you want more information about these, you need to do our Life Coaching Course. Follow this <a href=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/courses\/life-coaching\/\">link<\/a> for more information.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/courses\/life-coaching\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-5271 size-shop_single\" src=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/footer4-1-600x96.jpg\" alt=\"Trifocus fitness academy - register Life Coaching certification\" width=\"600\" height=\"96\" srcset=\"https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/footer4-1-600x96.jpg 600w, https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/footer4-1-300x48.jpg 300w, https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/footer4-1-768x123.jpg 768w, https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/footer4-1-1024x164.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/footer4-1.jpg 1250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Trifocus Fitness Academy - Life Coaching Certification\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Kp5RgNGpK9s?start=1&#038;feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1&#038;origin=https:\/\/trifocusfitnessacademy.co.za\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In South Africa, we have added many words to our own vocabulary over the past few decades. 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